Introducing Berlin-based drummer Eilis Frawley, our featured artist for this edition of Sit in on Friday. As a former member of the bands “Party Fears & I Drew Blank,” Eilis has carved out her own unique identity as a percussionist, singer, and songwriter. Her powerful spoken word lyrics delve into the everyday struggles faced by women, shedding light on the unsettling reality of feeling unsafe in situations like encountering a creepy stare on the train or being subjected to harassment from a group of individuals.
In her animated music video for the single “Stats,” Eilis vividly portrays the all-too-real scenario of walking alone at night, keys clutched between fingers, engaging in a pretend phone call for safety. Described as a visually captivating and unapologetically feminist work of art by Missy Magazine, the video’s colorful and thought-provoking visuals left me mesmerized, prompting profound reflections on the unjust society women navigate. The eye-opening statistics presented in the video left me truly shocked, and I’m grateful for that awakening. Eilis’s lyrics are refreshingly honest and direct, highlighting the urgency for people to recognize the authenticity and gravity of these issues. Her sound is raw and unique, embodying an indie vibe characterized by rhythmic drums and poetic delivery.
“Stats” serves as a single from Eilis Frawley’s forthcoming EP, “Adult Life,” slated for release on October 23rd. After discovering her true identity as a solo artist and honing her distinct sound, the feminist drummer joined forces with the independent UK-based record label, Reckless Yes. We had the privilege of sitting down with Eilis to delve into her understanding of true identity.
Firstly, we’re eager to hear your perspective on what true identity means to you.
Starting with a profound question! In my opinion, true identity is achieved when you feel comfortable with who you are. It involves challenging societal norms and constructing your own moral framework while allowing your experiences to shape you. It entails embracing change, being self-aware, and possessing inner strength.
Can you recall your earliest memory or experience of music?
Ah, yes! Growing up, I was exposed to a lot of live traditional Irish music. However, one vivid memory I have is of my older sister playing Michael Jackson’s album “Dangerous” on CD at home. Her love for that album exceeded my young comprehension.
What motivated you to start creating music?
I initially began playing the violin at a young age, but there’s a distinct difference between learning an instrument and creating music. My journey into music-making began in my early 20s when I connected with like-minded individuals who shared a desire to explore and challenge ourselves collectively. Once I started making music, there was no turning back. It became a lifelong commitment.
What aspects of the city you reside in inspire you the most? How has the city influenced your individual sound?
I draw immense inspiration from the diverse lifestyles of my friends who pursue various interesting paths. Living in Berlin has shattered many mental barriers I had regarding music creation. It has shown me that I need not adhere to the confines of an “ideal” song structure and that it’s perfectly acceptable to discover and refine my artistic expression as I go.
How do you feel your journey thus far has shaped your identity?
While I’m still relatively new to the role of a songwriter, being a drummer has played a pivotal role in shaping my identity. Not a day goes by without drums occupying my thoughts, and hardly a day passes without me playing them. It’s where I find my utmost joy and contentment.
When do you find yourself most creatively inspired to make music?
My creative bursts tend to occur in intense waves. Usually, I feel most inspired when a particular thought or emotion consumes me and demands to be expressed through music. Until I capture that essence in a song, I can’t find peace. Often, I write three songs in a week and then experience a lull for several weeks. It may not be the healthiest system, but it works for me.
We’ve all been confined since mid-March due to the ongoing quarantine. How has this period treated you?
Surprisingly, the quarantine has been kinder to me than I anticipated. The period from March to June felt like an extended camping trip with my shared living arrangement. We played countless board games and enjoyed numerous shared meals. We even undertook some home renovations. While it was a shift to spend so much time at home, it was a welcomed change. Additionally, I wrote copious amounts of music and recorded my upcoming EP, “Adult Life,” during the lockdown. Of course, there were moments of existential crisis, questioning the meaning of life.
How does the current global situation influence your creative process? What are your musical or creative goals for the next few years?
I’m thoroughly enjoying the process of writing and developing my solo project. I would love to embark on a tour (laughs) and devote time to experimenting with new sounds and innovative ways of storytelling. As long as I continue creating music regularly, I am content. More of that, please!
Has there been a musical experience, concert, or performance that deeply touched your soul?
I’m an absolute sucker for live music—there’s simply nothing quite like it. Small gigs, in particular, hold a special place in my heart. However, if I were to highlight a significant experience, it would be seeing Tune-yards perform in Berlin. It was truly incredible.
If you could have a conversation with your past self, what advice or message would you impart?
I would tell her that the journey of making music knows no finish line. I would encourage her to savor each moment as it comes and not become fixated on the future, relinquishing the constant need to achieve more or strive for perceived improvement.
